Haha very true! I love the phrase. Yes I know exactly what you are saying. I know I'm not unattractive but as you age you can't help but compare yourself to younger women. I know that's a slippery slope though. Thanks for your feedback and positive comments, just to say too, I didn't say I was overweight, I am really not, but I am most definitely messy! hahaha. No one could argue with that, even my strongest supporters, of which I need to become, clearly. Also, I don't think his new partner is unintelligent, just younger. I actually really liked her. maybe in a way that is better, she is nice and she is lovely and it does make sense that he's in love with her.