I really needed to read this from you today. It's sort of serendipity. I'm back in a situation where I now have contact with a previous boyfriend, where we had this kind of relationship, classic love addiction. He's perpetually emotionally unavailable and know we are literally the worst match ever. But you know how it works, that is exactly the person you are programmed to be with. I had thought that I had moved on from this pattern of behaviour with therapy but I know honestly that I haven't. It's kind of disappointing that I'm still caught up in that cycle. I'm exasperated with myself right now. I really appreciated reading your article as literally everything you said resonated with me a million times over. Thank you so much for sharing and I said on your other article, I'm so happy that you got free out of this cycle. It's so destructive