Meghann, thank you so much for this incredibly well written and constructive response to my article. This is exactly what the comments section and Medium is all about. I really understand this opinion too and I fundamentally agree that the biggest problem we have is with alcohol and how it is marketed. Everyone believes that it’s a good choice in moderation when quite frankly it’s totally not. I agreed with everything you said and I completely had not thought about this aspect of the word and how it can be seen to heap blame.