Melissa, I feel for you so much. Reading this made me wish that the law was more on our side here. men like this are so good at working the system and manipulating everyone to believe their sob stories. I am so lucky that he was the one to leave the country initially so he couldn't put a stop on us going anywhere. I am so grateful that this happened otherwise I would be in the same situation as you, having to allow regular access to a man who is incredibly violent and controlling. Why nothing is done to protect women and children in this situation I don't know. I am thinking of you. Stay strong.