Oh Tami thank you so much for replying. You know as women we get a ton of these backhanded compliments. Just FYI, you should not listen to that. I am like you, I have moments where I think oh god I need to be tanned and well slept etc to be beautiful. It’s bollocks we just need to believe it. This was hard for me. As you can tell. But life goes on. Yes I’m not 24 anymore. But I’ve got a lot more to offer. Thanks for your message and replying. You should totally write a story about that comment..,I think a lot of people can relate